Some of you already know about this part of uncleric's personal journey, but for those not in the know I give the following description (with the disclaimer 'subject to change without notice').
Due to history and circumstances as well as personal challenges from a few, I have embarked on what may end up being a very rewarding Mission Impossible. I have decided to 'clear the deck' and start from scratch an investigation into the most incredible creatures known to human kind - that's right - I am investigating women and the feminine perspective.
While indeed every man does this - here is the twist. I have just dumped all previous experience from the mental hard drive into the trash bin so as to facilitate a rebuild and reboot of, well, the whole kit and caboodle. This began a few weeks ago and is finally taking on some form. I hope you all enjoy the following experience...
Here in Texas there is a popular store chain called 'Hastings'. These are much like B.Dalton book stores though they are advertised as entertainment stores. Within these they have the Hard Cover Cafe. I have found a hang out spot for my experimentation.
Anyway, after processing an event a few days ago I feel the need to share. With my newly formed appreciation for female conversation I initiated a talk with two ladies concerning life issues, that is, what issues concern them.
These were very close friends physically quite different from each other. One was naturally dominant in traits, having dark hair and eyes, while the other recessant, having bright blue eyes and blond hair. Both were very attractive and relatively fit.
Upon asking questions it was revealed they were childhood friends. It also became quite evident the one possessing dominant physical characteristics was also dominant in behavior - answering the questions asked of her recessive friend (Hmmm). I quickly exposed this to garner better 'unprotected' answers.
As the conversation developed it was revealed the dominant girl was married and the recessive single, though dating a man she attributed as being 'in-love' with. Naturally, this stocked the proverbial 'why him' question.
She then described the relationship as unique, in that other parties prior to him were more readily influenced by her charms, quickly becoming her toys as it were. This one, however, was a challenge, aloof and untamable - she liked it though she was frustrated by it. Thus these attributes were filed into the "Hmmm" file for future reference.
Nevertheless, the most remarkable statement occurred as the conversation was wrapping up. I informed them of my quest for knowledge and understanding of the feminine perspective, thanked them for their input and then they volunteered a "SECRET".
The confession went, "Here is a secret. It is about what women want. What we really want we don't know, until we find it!"
This confession now assumes the lead position on the Hmmm file pile.
Until the next adventure ...
theunclericproject
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